Well.... I think it's more a matter of completely ignoring what society thinks is "beautiful." Some SGs are literally covered in art, some have very little. Some are rail-thin, some are voluptuous. They're *all* hotties in every sense of the word. It's more that they identify themselves with a certain aesthetic, which I feel is much more healthy and natural than those that spend huge amounts of money to physically alter themselves into what another thinks is beauty.

What a lot of the barbie-types don't seem to understand is that they're perfectly lovely the way nature made them. The hell with getting boob-jobs, surgery, implants, etc. Personally, I'm a lot more attracted to women who have confidence in themselves, not just their looks. It's easier to appreciate someone when they don't make excuses for their looks...

Variety is what makes life bearable. If all women (or men, for that matter) had the same body-type or "magazine-looks," I think I'd really know what it meant to be in hell... Change yourself ONLY if it's something you want to do for yourself, not because someone tries to make you feel bad because of how you are. And frankly, lovely miss Wicked, you're gorgeous! Just a pity yer so far away... :(

As for me, I'm just happy to have found a place where the women that leave me gasping in awe at their beauty and wit can be found. Better still, one can contact them directly and begin a friendship. I've only been a member of the SG site for five weeks now, but I chat regularly with three of the lovelies... Life is good. :P

- kher